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*ovemybabe17
writes: my boyfriend of 5 months lives about 35 minutes away from me and i only see him once every 2 sometimes 3 weeks. we have managed to make it work so far. he says he loves me and i love him too. the only thing is that he's cheated on me about 2 months into our relationship. he told me straight up and said he never wanted to hurt me or lie to me. he said he still wanted to be with me and i forgave him. however, i dont know if that was the right thing to do. since i dont see him that often, how will i know when somethings wrong or if he's cheating on me again? i dont want to break up with him, but i dont want to go on not trusting him completely..what do i do?
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reader, sunnycomet +, writes (8 October 2009):
Glad I could help and thank you for writing that. :)
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reader, lovemybabe17 +, writes (7 October 2009):
lovemybabe17 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks sunnycomet your absolutely right:)
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reader, sunnycomet +, writes (7 October 2009):
You don't need to trust him right away. Work on trusting him and if you feel like you can't trust him again then you need to let him go.
Good Luck!
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