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Do I tell my ex how I feel?

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Question - (17 February 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 19 February 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *ovechocolate writes:

I still have feelings for my ex and its been bothering me so much lately, because we are really good close friends and im finding it hard hiding my feelings. Theres two reason why i don't wanna tell him how i feel. One is because i don't think he feels the same way. Two i don't wanna mess up our friendship. He sed i can talk to him about anything i wanted but its hard. I was sure he didn't feel the same way but today i was with him in a class room and my friend was surprisingly quiet later i asked her why, she sed she was watching us seein how we were and she sed he was looking at my eyes and lips and lickin his lips im not sure what this means doe coz when i get dis close 2 him i get shy and panic and avoid looking at his eyes coz im scared. Thanks for all your help

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A female reader, lovechocolate United Kingdom +, writes (19 February 2009):

lovechocolate is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Yeah I do feel a little bit more confident, I'm happy he still likes me but it's going to be so hard for me to move on.

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A male reader, anoms United Kingdom +, writes (19 February 2009):

anoms agony aunti think thats a really possitive thing then, you should be feeling a little more confident knowing he still likes and respects you, you can move on now with no hard feelings:)

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A female reader, lovechocolate United Kingdom +, writes (19 February 2009):

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He said he has feelings for me, but he doesn't think us as a couple works. He's the only person I ever went out with as I was sooo shy and didn't know what to do. He still wants us to be friends.

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A male reader, anoms United Kingdom +, writes (19 February 2009):

anoms agony auntdid it go well, what did he say? he still likes you??

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A female reader, lovechocolate United Kingdom +, writes (19 February 2009):

lovechocolate is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks i told him

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A male reader, anoms United Kingdom +, writes (17 February 2009):

anoms agony auntYes it's possible he feels the same way, if neither of you are seeing anyone else then you have nothing to lose, you didn't mention the circumstances you broke up but if your friends can see he still likes you then it's a safe bet he does. If he's your ex you really should feel more open and confident about expressing these thoughts because nothing embarrassing can really come of it, gudluk.

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