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writes: during sex' is the man know if woman cum or not?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2006): tell him, when ur about to, apparently its a real turn on and ull be sure that he knows, make a big deal about it say how good it is and how good he is, helps a lot in a relationship :D
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (27 October 2006):
 After an orgasm most people men and women are extremely sensitive to be touched in their genital area.
When using clitoris stimulation for a quicker orgasm for the woman, the clitoris will get a bit harder when excited. This is very easy for a man to feel if he is rubbing it with his fingers or sucking on it during sex.
The woman's g-spot also swells when excited but the penis is not usually sensitive enough to feel it. If fingers are inserted inside the vagina and massage the g-spot then the swelling can be felt.
When a woman has an orgasm her Kegal muscle flexes and pulses around a man's penis gently squeezing it. If the man has come he can really feel it, it actually will give him some intense shivers through his body. If it is before he comes his penis is a bit tougher to the sense of touch but still usually a strong Kegal muscle can send him right into orgasm.
It takes a lot more time to get a woman to come then a man and a sexually sensitive and experienced man will hold himself back until the woman comes, waiting for the sensations listed above. To fake it will only hurt your sex life.
-Just a side note a sexually experienced man doesn't necessarily have a lot of sexual experience to know all of this, just one woman who is honest with him to what she wants and is willing to guide him.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (27 October 2006):
 Not for sure. That's why women can fake orgasms: shout and scream a lot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2006): hi hun,it really depends on how experienced the man is,most virgins or inexperienced men wouldn't have a clue,the same can be said for experienced men it depends on how willing they are to please! if the woman is a good actress he may never know!
if your having problems orgasaming talk to your partner,he probably doesnt realise and isnt going to get any better unless you show him how!
good luck and have fun :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2006): I would say probably not, its harder for men to feel us ladies orgasming. we can usually feel when a man has cum.
I have heard lots of different beliefs on this but in my experience men can't really tell if you are faking or not.
If you are finding it hard to cum during sex, dont worry not all women orgasm during sex, I pesonally have only orgasmed once during sex that I cant remember, but I still really enjoy sex as much as the next lady.
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reader, uonlyliveonce  +, writes (27 October 2006):
 not really unless they ask you but then you can always lie if you dont wanna hurt his feelings. n u could fake it so he thought you had but thats a bit pointless lol
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