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*etriumquid9
writes:I'm 26, gay, and I've just started seeing a guy for the first time in my life. He's wonderful when I'm around him and we get along great. The problem is that he's really flakey. He makes plans and forgets about them, say's he'll call me when he gets off work and then I don't hear from him for days, makes plans with me and then hangs out with his friends.I don't know if he's just a flakey guy or if he's trying to send me a message and I don't want to start accusing him of anything and scare him off.I know I'm needy and I'm trying not to monopolize his time, but if you specifically make plans, at least call me to tell me you can't make it.What do I do? Do I tell him or do I just live with it? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): Sorry, but if he was really in to you then he would make all the time in the world to see you. I would forget about this guy and move on, he's already messing you about before you have even gotten started. Open your eyes, you don't want to be played do you? because you'll be the one who gets hurt. It must be a great ego boost to him knowing that you are mad about him...so find someone who appreciates you and will go out of their way to make plans to see you.
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