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writes:okay maybe im writing this because i want you guys to tell me what i wanna hear or see, maybe to get this of my chest i know I'm definity on here cause i got know idea what to do , ive done all the sums and all the possible senarios that could happen none of them lead to me getting my ex back.I was very hesistant, after having the guilt trip laid on me about how much i really loved her, i felt bad..she knew i loved her she wanted more than words.i loved her always been honest been going out for 10 months which i suppose by that time its make or break , but we were close like close close. anyway with my mates traveling over overseas were keen for me to join them,next year she didnt wanna be going out till then next year and then break up. i was 50 50 hesistation what do i do. as the idea grew We had a mutual break up. I was happy she was sad, i was sad at the fact she was sad but tha fact that i didnt have to break her heart like that.now i had a fall out with my mates shes hooked up with a hawaiian who is gunna take her all over travelling.i caught myself short, lost someone i shouldnt shes happy shes sad cause she knows how close we were part of her wants to come back,shes been really good to let me ring to stay friends and we still chat. its those outside influences telling her to move on my question i suppose is i hate being lonely i dont wanna find anyone else i stuffed up derservely so, seeing that look in her eye makes me wanna grab her , im a respect to know itll do more harm than good, im letting by gones be bygones. but do i stand up and fight for wat i believe in ?? am i just jealous yip i am..ive answered my own question . i wanna make it like it was. i need a way!!!believing this girl was so right . so confused . im im an idiot lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2008): I think you need to follow your head and your heart on this one. If you really like her, I think you should tell her you appreciate your friendship with her but that you also want to let her know how you feel. That whatever happens you'll still be there for here when she needs you. I hope I helped a lil,
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2008): Stop being jealous, let her do what she wants to do and stay friends with her. Just friends with her. Once she realises that you're always there for her I think she will also notice you are a good guy. In other words, this needs a lot of sacrifice from yourself. If you are not prepared to go through it all I think you should just give up, cos it seems to me like you only wanted to go back to her cos yours friends left you.Think about it, and good luck
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