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male
age
30-35,
*oey 2008
writes:Hi, It's my Ex Girlfriends birthday next week. We were together 3 years and broke up in September this year, I still think about her every day and deep down I know I still love her, is it right for me to still give her a birthday card and write how I still feel about her and I'm here for her if she needs me? or does this make me sound desperate??In case you ask, we broke up because she said we were drifting apart.Thanks In Advance :) X
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2008): Really? What I think you should do is give her the card and then confess your love but if your hopeing to win her back do something that shows you love her something you too have together like singing "your song" or doing something really cheesy! Just something that'l let her no you'v never been closer and that you love every second with her.All the best xx
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (13 December 2008):
 A card is a great idea, but a message detailing your feelings is too much. Keep the card simple - the gesture will speak enough without needing to overwhelm her with words.
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reader, Blue_Angel0316 +, writes (13 December 2008):
 Just send a simple card. Try something with humor or a nice birthday note. Write a short note of our own also to say hello and that you wanted to wish her the best and a Happy Birthday. Nothing really mushy. The card alone will get her attention. If she misses you she might make an attempt on her own to write back or perhaps to call and thank you for the card. Give her time and if she calls or writes you can take one day at the time and see how it all goes.
If she doesn't write or call, then I suggest you move on. If it's meant to be she will seek you out eventually. Don't put your life on hold, be with friends and family. Do things you like. *ssshhhhhh! You might accidently show up sometime where she might be. Yes go to some of the places she could possibly be still going to. If she happens to be there say hello if she speaks and if not wait to talk to her. No need to rush the situation. Be cordial at best.
Time is the teller of all tales. I hope that in time yours will become the Fairytale that you dream of that has come true. Don't forget that if Rapunzel's hair had been short she would still be up in that tower and that Sleeping Beauty was awakened by a KISS!
*Just a note ....It's many times we overlook an ORCHID while trying to find a ROSE.
God bless,
Blue_Angel
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