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writes:There was this boy that i like, and he likes me too.He's already told me he likes me and i told him i like him too, but when i told my dad if i can have aBf, he went all crazy and said that i can't have oneUntil i'm 18, and i'm barely 15. Then he told me that i shouldn't even be thinking about that. I don't know what to do ?? Should i tell that boy yes i do want to be his gf, or should i listen to my dad and keep away from him ??? Thanks i really do appreciate it =] Reply to this Question
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (31 July 2009):
 as everyone has said your dad is looking out for you and protecting you and as rif raf said alot of young teens nowa days are getting pregnant and living on benefits and what not and he just knows what boys like that are thinking because normally they are just thinking sex sex sex because they're just hitting puberty and really randy boys.
you should respect your dads wishes as he's looking out for you and knows what's best and wants you to get an education not drop out of school due to unwanted pregnancy or anything like that.
as rhythymandblues2 said it's all about living your life this age and being with friends.
hope this helps.
x ilovebowsandcherries x
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2009): Yes, your Dad wants what is best for you. Tell the boy you aren't allowed to have boyfriends, but you can have friends who are boys.
See if your Dad would be agreeable to taking a group of you out somewhere to have some fun. You really don't need a boyfriend at your age, it is a whole lot more fun having lots of friends and focusing on school and your activities. Your Dad is trying to raise you to be a responsible adult and you won't be one of those for a few years yet. You are lucky to have a father that cares about you enough to make some rules, some kids don't have parents who guide them or care much what they do and that is just wrong!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2009): back off, now, you're not that attached to him, but if you say yes, you'll start having feelings for him, i recommend, that until you really really like someone, stay single. You may end up with a broken heart like me, or with a baby ! :S.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2009): It's too bad that parents make these kinds of rules with their teenagers. Don't they realize that it's only gonna make their kids even more likely to do what they're trying to prevent? You can't bottle up a teenager away from the opposite sex until they're 18yo. He's a moron to think that could ever work.
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