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writes:i dated this guy for two weeks but its still very early..and i like his freind before i met him..my bf is really sweet, but kinda clingy,and hes very sensitive..and i really hate to hurt him!and his freind is so fun to be around..he makes me laugh..and hes very talented. he lives on the other side of town from me..and doesnt own a car, we have no classes together..but EVERYTIME i see him..i get so happy..like..im in love or something..is it worth it? or should i just try to forget the freind..my sister thinks that getting with the freind is trashy..and im not even sure if the freind likes me..but when i hang out with my bf, the freind is always there..and he stares at me..and in halls when i see him.. he gives me this look...and it makes my heart beat faster..what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, leana09 +, writes (27 January 2007):
leana09 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell, i decided to stay with my boyfreind
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reader, Anonymousloll +, writes (20 January 2007):
I agree, i would be gutted if my bf was making eyes at someone else and leading me on like that, its cruel, finish it with him as u clearly dont want to be with him. Figure out then whats going on with this other guy not while you're still attached x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2007): The other Aunts are correct. I have always stated, for adolescents especially, such as yourself, that dating is a selection process and one learns more about love and relationships and the ones we truly want to be with, through dating experiences. If this current bf is not the one for you, he needs to be told as soon as possible. Of course he will be hurt. But, we all have been there, done that. If you need to break it off, do it with compassion but do it cleanly, truthfully and honestly. Don't give him any glimmers of hope. He 'll need to move on, heal and recover. The sooner the better. Good luck, dear.
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reader, Nikita  +, writes (20 January 2007):
 Hi there, well I think to be honest, you should be kind to your bf and end it with him because its not fair to be making eyes at someone else when with him knowing that you like this other boy more. He will be hurt probably but he will get over it and its better to do it now then leave things go on when you like someone else more. As CD said, I would leave it a while before you pursue this other boy to spare your current bfs feelings. Be honest okay. Its much better in the long run. Good luckx
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reader, cd206 +, writes (20 January 2007):
 Make a decision. If you don't love your boyfriend you shouldn't be with him. It shouldn't matter to you whether the other guy likes you or not. Even if you do break up with your boyfriend you'd have to wait a while before you could go out with his friend. It'd be mean and hurtful to your current guy otherwise. Think about what you want, really and truly, and then you'll know what to do.
CD
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