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writes:I have a few questions to ask. For one, I have a friend that is a guy. I think that he likes me, but I have no feelings for him that way at all. I don't want to say anything to him, because I am not sure if he does. The thing is, I want to flirt with other guys or maybe even kiss one, but I always go to parties with him. I am afraid that if I even get a boyfriend, I wont be hanging out with him as much. Also, I want to know what the best way is to find a boyfriend. I am looking for a relationship. PLEASE help me :(
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reader, kenny  +, writes (20 January 2007):
 If you are getting signs from this guy you go out with that he fancys you, and you do not feel the same you have got to tell him that nothing can ever happen between the two of you. When you go to parties with him, other guys probably think you are a couple with this fella, so in a way he's impeding your chances of guys coming up and chatting to you.
As for finding a boyfriend, there are many places this could happen, the most likely on a night out with your girl friends, maybe at the gym, or even at the supermarket.
I find when i am looking for girls i don't meet them, and when im not looking i meet loads. Don't go out looking for a guy, let it happen naturally, but it will happen.
Good luck x
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reader, cd206 +, writes (20 January 2007):
 You're right that going out with guys platonically can send the wrong message to potential boyfriends. Try to go out with the girls some time. Guys will be more receptive to you then. But you can't force getting a boyfriend. It will happen in time but you can't make it happen. As for spending less time with your guy friend if you get a boyfriend that needn't happen. You just need to learn to balance your time so you're not neglecting either of them.
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