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writes:I love my boyfriend we have a little boy together we have been together for 3 years but i am not sure if i should go . i did live i cumbria before and i wont to go back but he does not i am o sad where i am i feel like we just live together as friend and the relationship is dead i have tried am scared of being on my own i have been with he so long but i wish that i can meet other people i have depression so i dont no what is love of hate plz help me is dont no if i wont this man or an other!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2008): i had a argument with him to day i always feel like yelling at him just to say i wont to go but i do no what to do i what him to go but i have lived with him so long i dont n what to do i wont him to make me reminded me what de e love him im going to start backing my pack my bags to see what he will sdo hurry and help me plz help i need to no
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2008): thank you for that i have tried to understand what im feeling but i think that im with because i have been for so long but i wish that i can g oout and just have fun meet new people but i love him but i know it will not last but im still going to try for my son i just wish that i can be happy again like i was
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reader, noonespecial2  +, writes (21 February 2008):
I think the thing that is the scariest is the thought of ending it. As I understand, depression can trick you and can make you think that things are worse than they really are. If you believe in yourself and trust yourself, you will know what to do. When I find myself in a situation where I can't make a decision, I find that spending time by myself, either walking along the Beach or sitting on a rock looking into the ocean can bring me peace and then I will know my answer. I also wonder whether your depression is made worse from your relationship and whether your depression is telling you that you are not taking care of youself by staying in this relationship. Only you can answer that. There are lots of groups about where you can go along and meet people like yourself and when you have support you begin to grow strong. Look in the front section of the white pages (phone book) there are support groups and phone lines where you can speak to people for support. There are also community centres that hold support groups.
When you have a quiet moment, speak to the love that you share with your child and ask that love for the right answer and remember that something you are scared of is never as scary as you think.
I believe in you and I know that within time you will know what to do.
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