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Do I really like this new guy and how can I forget about my ex?

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Article - (4 April 2010) 0 Comments - (Newest, )
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I still have feelings for my ex even though its been 2 years of hoping, He doesn't share the same feelings i understand that. im just so upset i really want to get over him. He was my first bf but why am i so attached him he didnt even kiss me, i feel so unattractive because of him it just hurts knowing he was never attracted to me, i was never good enough for him, i can only be his friend. I've decided to cut contact i dont text or talk to him online but im still hurting i've only started a few days ago, i will bump into him in school tho. Our friendship is basically over we were best friends, he says its nt over but it is, his close friend even sed he hates seeing us two like dis. My ex is pushing me away, he's fed up and given up on trying to help me, i understand but its breaking me, we wont talk 2 me much just say hi r u ok dats it,i see him with other girls fine. i feel like shit. that why i've cut contact. I feel like its my fault im unhappy, i fall for the guy thats not interested in me. Now i met someone else whos interested in me and i think i have a tiny bit of feelings for him. he's the first guy i looked at since my ex. but i feel bad because he's a good guy not my usual type, he's loud funny a bit of a clown my friends describe him as a jokeman. My friends say hes the type that will use me for sex etc i shudnt go for him. i dont know what it is that makes me like him, most the time im not even sure if i do. i hate that i still want my ex, when i know this new guy shows an interest he pretends to kiss me etc. I feel bad that i may lead him on coz i sed i like him he was grinnning, but i hope my mind doesnt change im so confused 1 min i like him the other i dont. My friends say im telling myself i dnt coz i dnt wanna get hurt again. How do i get over my ex. 2yrs is long enough i expected it to be over by now, thank you

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