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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My girlfriend of 2 months or so has had her best friend trying to replace me and sabotage our relationship for the last month nonstop. This issue was made even worse because the only way i could see my girlfriend was threw this friend of hers and she cut me off completely, and is now trying to replace me.Last night basically her friends plan came to to its end and it succeeded. My girlfriend left me for a guy she only met for 8 hours for one night largerly because of all her friends actions stopping me from being able to see her because her parents are basically insane and we have to see each other under her friends parents super vision who agree with us about her parents being ridiculous. Im heart broken but she continues to say she loves me and wants to date me but only once she is 18 and free to do as she pleases. I dont know if she is trying to use me as a social cushion or insurance policy or can she not take not being able to have someone physically around during a relationship as she claims?I wanted to wait till she did all this and now her being able to replace me, a guy she has supposedly respected and loved for two years prior to dating could replace me with a guy she hardly knows. Should i ever give her a second chance in a few years or should i just cut all contact and never speak to her again and move on?How should i handle this aunts?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2010): 2 months is an easy loss to right off. Be thankful you haven't been in this situation longer. Sounds to me like you have been fooling your self and this girl does not have real feelings for you. Move on. Your still young.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2010): it seems to me like she is really just using you if she is so willing to just drop you like that.
in my opinion, i think you should definitely move on and find someone loads better who will fully appreciate you and want to be with you
i hope everything works out alright for you!
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