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writes:ive been out of the dating game a while and i recently went on a date with a guy i met over a year ago he didnt seem his usual self . we arranged to meet again and he was going to let me know its been over a week he did say he hadnt been well it was serious illness . but we would sort something i have misplaced his number and im not sure if he has mine. my friend is on a dating site and he is on it ( i knew he was on there ) i really liked the guy should my friend say something or should i join and message him ? he might not have been interested but hes out going and would say if he didnt like someone . we live in the same area and my friend lives near him . do i make a prat of myself and take a chance or just leave him ? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (10 April 2017):
 If it was me I would let it go, surely if their was much interest more would have happened a year ago?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (7 April 2017):
 You know? I think I would just let the notion of this guy go.
You might have misplaced HIs number but the likelihood that he has done the same? It's kind of low.
If you are looking for a man to date don't dip in the past for one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2017): If you have no other way of contacting him (facebook, email, phone), then consider joining the dating site. You can then contact him with a message along the lines of, "I've just joined this site, and what a lovely surprise to see that you're on here too. How are you?" Nothing heavy, just light and friendly.
But...
Only contact him once. Then the ball is totally in his court, and more than one contact from you would look like chasing.
Do not ask your friend to contact him on your behalf.
Good luck!
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