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writes: i have just fell pregnant to my partner,problem is he lives with his parents and seems a mammys boy.his parents do everything for him,even run his bath! he is so huffy and moody constantly,i can never tell when he is happy or sad as he always has same expression on his face.he is so boring he is 25 going on 60.i have a son from a previous relationship and he goes in a mood at the fact i have to keep in contact with my sons dad.i keep thinking i cant live my life like this with him being like this 24/7 trouble is do i keep the baby and live like this?or terminate my pregnancy finish him and concentrate on my life and my son? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2006): First, consider the emotional and psychological effects terminating a pergancy will have on you, and by proxy, on your child. It is usually not an "in and out" proceadure.Secondly, if you do not think you can care for this child, or you simply don't want to; there are thousands of wonderful people who would like the chance. You do have options.http://www.abortionfacts.com/reardon/after_effects_of_abortion.asp cites a few studies on the after-effects of abortion.
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (4 March 2006):
 God help this poor kid you are planning on bringing into the world!!
How did you ever get pregnant in the first place if you despise the father so much?
This is the 21st century honey, did you never here of contraception? Terminate a pregnacy cos the guy is a boring mummy's boy.....you need help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2006): I agree with keeping the baby and terminating the relationship. The baby will not make mama's boy grow up, and it's likely mama will then be in control of your life as well. As a single mother, you already have the strength to raise a family on your own. It will be difficult, but your second child could only bring more pleasure into your life. And make sure to get the child support from the father, because he is obligated.
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reader, bananagoat +, writes (4 March 2006):
Maybe becoming a father is the one thing that will make him grow up. Depending upon how long the two of you have been seeing each other maybe its time to take it to the next step.
Good Luck!!
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reader, harshbutfair +, writes (4 March 2006):
 Split the two problems and deal with them seperately.
Sounds like you don't give a care for the father so I'm amazed you got pregnant by him.
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reader, MarthaZ +, writes (4 March 2006):
 Your baby has done nothing wrong, it's your partner you need to get rid of. Don't get your perfect unborn child in the middle of this, think what will be the best for your children.Your partner who doesn't even run his own bath needs to move his backside and move out!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2006): There is something very immoral with this post, but I can't quite pinpoint what it is... Hmmm... Terminate pregnancy because the dad is a boring mama's boy... Hmmm...Well, let's put it this way, keep the baby, terminate the relationship.
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