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Do I just not have guy material to attract women to me?

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Question - (9 August 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 9 August 2011)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I always see my friends that have girls who are attracted to them. All the time female friends that tell me how they like one of my other friends and I feel bad. Ive never had women throw themselves at me like they do to them and its got me down.

Ive never had 3 girls fighting for my attention and im a good looking guy. What is so wrong with me? Im no slob, I workout, go to college, and have a good job. Is it I just don't have guy material to attract women to me?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2011):

Nobody can give you an answer to that question. To this day it is still unknown to science and human kind why some people seem to attract far more "admirers" than others who have so much more to offer. I'm in the same situation. Nobody is ever interested in me, while my former friend has legions of guys chasing her. And I am the one who is better looking and more educated.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2011):

Women are drawn naturally to some qualties such as Confidence, funny, Smart and Charming do you have any of these. Just be your self around women and they will like you.

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A female reader, k_c100 United Kingdom +, writes (9 August 2011):

k_c100 agony auntWell what would you say is different about your friends in comparison to you? Do they treat women differently? How do they behave around girls?

It is hard to say what you are missing without knowing you or your friends, if you could give more info about your friends and what you think the differences are between you and them that might help.

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A female reader, Aunty Susie Australia +, writes (9 August 2011):

Aunty Susie agony auntMaybe you don't have that dangerous/bad boy appeal that some guys have. But don't stress it, that kind off thing wears thin after a while, and then the girls all want the nice guy. Thats where you come into your own. So just be patient for now. :-)

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