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writes: Dear Cupid,Ive been dating my bf for a year and a half. Since the beginning I have been hesitant to trust him. I dont know if it is an intuition about him, if its the small shady things that have happened, or if I am just scared. He has never cheated on me but he still talks to several exes, etc. There was once a rumor that he was seen kissing one of those exes, which they both denied and everyone else there said nothing happened. But he still wont stop talking to her, which seems disrespectful when he knows that it bothers me. I just dont know whether to try and forget those rumors and trust him, or to just give up and walk away. Becuase there are constantly things popping up to make me question him. Any advice? Is it me or should he not be trusted?
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reader, rammsteinfan  +, writes (8 January 2007):
 I think someone is just trying to rile you up and cause drama in your life! I'd say to just ignore the rumors...for that's what they are RUMORS. Don't believe them until you see it for yourself...Catch him in the act.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2007): Hi,
Well I'm probably a little older and wiser - and what you've posted is exactly what some people do (men and women)! You probably adore and love him so much it's difficult to even think he's cheating.
When I found out my wife was cheating at work, she came up with every excuse under the sun, she attacked me "how dare you" style and even left work! I felt guilty, until one day I discovered an email sent by her to her lover. It confirmed everything. She'd been cheating on me for two years -but family life was great!.
My guess is that your a lovely girl, very trusting, high morals, and simply wants a close loving relationship. Unless your current boyfriend has kids in previous relationships - then he has NO NEED TO CONTACT FORMER GIRLFRIENDS !!!
Beware and take care - all is not what it seems!!!
Oh, and by the way - if you confront him straight on, he'll melt you in his arms... but he's wiser now, and more alert about his affairs - trust me! - it's in him, he'll break you heart - get out while you can!
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