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30-35,
*prestell
writes:I was sort of seeing this guy from uni and although we get on really well and have a good connection i could tell he had doubts. He said he was scared of getting into a relationship but then he would continue to be encouraging and flirty/romantic with me. The thing is, is that we are going to be flat mates next year with some other people and because of this, he doesnt think a relationship would be a good idea. I know that it does make sense but I can't ignore my feelings for him, and I still think he has feelings for me (but it may be wishful thinking). Should I try and get over him (even though i see him everyday) or try and persuade him to be more than friends?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2010): this is my advice, just back off for a little while and let him come to you and eventually maybe things will start to work i think when a guy is being pressured or held down it makes him nervous and run away so maybe giving him the space he needs might spark the need for you
i hope i helped
sincerely, christina
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (2 February 2010):
 Is he a numb skull? Most people who are in or are going to be in a relationship somday if it lasts that long end up moving in with each other at some point. lol, he's got it all backwards.
Just make it clear with him, and if he does not want it move on. at least you tried and thats all you need to do to not have any regrets later. but he will because he didnt and he will see what a great time, including sex life you have with somone else.
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