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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have this guy friend who I've known for over a year. We used to be quite close but after a long break of being on holidays and stuff during the summer we didn't get to even text much, although we don't have deep conversations like before, we still have a playful relationship and some in-jokes. Sometimes I think he might like me(the same way i like him, i mean, more than a friend) even just a bit, and other times not at all.He provokes me with our main in-joke because he said he likes getting a good chase out of it and he doesn't seem to mind the fact that I hit him when I catch him. He can be really sweet and nice and when one of my friends tied me up he came over and tickeld me until I fell and sometimes he just randomly attacks me. He doesn't act like that with any of our other friends and some say it could be taken as flirting, I don't know.He went away a while back and when he returned I was the first person he contacted and he was asking me how I was and it was all very sweet until he mentioned that he made out with two girls while he was away.A lot of things he says that are really nice are tainted quickly by things like that, but at the same time he can be really nice.He's not shy at all so I can't really see him holding back if he did have feelings for me.Any advice on how to turn a friendship into a relationship?
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reader, belphegor  +, writes (16 February 2010):
well im a guy and ive liked a close frnd of mine....its really hard and many complications happened and its been 8 months and our relationship is very complicated i don't know if we are frndz, more then frndz, or in betweenanyway he can like you because what i used to do with this girl is sometimes hit her jokingly, sometimes beeing rude, sometimes acting nice, sometimes ignoring her, sometimes playing mind games, sometimes telling her abt other girls to make her feel jealous....maybe he is shy in approaching you and not shy socially.
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (2 February 2010):
 Invite him to dinner for a proper date, dress right up, drink some wine, be seductive and let him know flirtaciously you want to take things with him to another level. And then make a night of it.
Nothing is mysteriously sexier than a woman who nows exactly what she wants.
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