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51-59,
*hellycg
writes:Hi Everyone, just an update ...Well as you know Ive been having troubles with my sister and after passing some work to her as I thought she deserved a 2nd chance (like everyone does) she has let me down big time not only have I had to find someone else to cover a make up job for me but also she has let my customer down directly as she was supposed to be doing treatments my customer has tried to contact her by phone and she has not been answering or ignoring the calls...when I came back in from work ive had a very frought bride leave me a message on my phone to which i replied and advised i was unaware of any other treatment that my sister had booked with her - rightly or wrongly I told the bride she had let me down too with the brides relatives... so i guess that puts me and the bride in the same boat... i am sooooo angry with my sister i really want to let rip and have a go my partner says not a good idea... as she will revel in it ... so now im left wondering do i ignore her and not ask why she didnt fulfil her job to my customers or do i just ignore her and treat her with the contempt she so rightly derserves.? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2012): Sister to sister issues are always fraught...and I suspect there's a competitive dynamic going on between you two long before this blow out.
I want to say you should be honest and tell her what she did wrong...could you tell us what some of your issues might be?
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reader, dangerouslyinlove0228  +, writes (31 August 2012):
 With my perspective, I think you should let her know how irresponsible & uncaring she is. Dealing with your sisters irresponsible behavior & your outraged customers behavior are different stories. You should let her know & hopefully she'll realize what she's done wrong . . .
& NEVER hold grudges against others esp. your siblings. Remember, "Blood is Thicker than Water". She may not be there for you now but when you need someone the most later during tough times.... She'll be there for you! :)
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