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writes:Hi ,I met a guy online just one time . He didn’t mention to meet me again but some times he text me .I am not native English speaker.A guy always texted me out of the blue.I think he wanted to contacted me as backup plan.Whenever I replied his text he disappeared.How I can say him not to contact me as backup plan Do I have to tell him delet me number from his black book?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2019): Wanting to be harsh with him and contacting him actually shows you DO care. When he gets your text he’ll know you are bothered by him and he’ll know he got to you.
If you really don’t care, just mentally remove him from your life and move on. If he contacts you, ignore him. You can disappear from him too.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (23 January 2019):
 Any kind of response, even a rejection, is still paying attention to him. Ghost him. Block and delete him.
The fact that you didn't consider him worthy of an answer will say more than some desperate sounding message.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2019): Op here I don’t care either ( if he care or not) but I want to be little harsh with him .
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (22 January 2019):
 I don't think he will care... Honestly, someone who can ignore you for ages and then presume you want to talk to him out of the blue.. doesn't seem like a person who really cares.. does it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2019): Thanks for your reply. I just want to little harsh with him but I want to use right words. I want to realize him that I am aware that he is using me as backup plan.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (21 January 2019):
No, you block his number or get a new number.
If you block his number and he STILL contacts you, then sure tell him to never call you again.
However, that doesn't mean he WON'T ever call you again. Which is why it's easier if you either BLOCK his number or change your number.
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