A
female
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51-59,
*yelashes
writes:Tonight my boyfriend says that another female has been flaunting herself to him and he "could" be interested. We have not been getting on that well recently and he says he loves me but things have changed. I wanted to know who it is but he said he would not tell me until I needed to know but he would not be unfaithful to me and would tell me before anything happened. I calmly said I had a right to know, especially after everything we had been through together and all the promises he made. Do I have the right to know??? There has been no direct communication between them??? and he back pedalled a bit and said he loves me and nothing will happen and if he told me who, I would confront them and cause trouble. Should I let him go??? has the rot set in already?? He says he wants a break...
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): Its really not worth losing a night's sleep over! What does it matter who this other woman is he's thinking he could be (read "most likely IS") interested in.
If he decides he'd rather date her, then you have to tell him goodbye and good luck. You can't keep him against his will!
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reader, eyelashes +, writes (21 April 2009):
eyelashes is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for answering so quick! I will be up all night thinking and worrying. I am strong but am not looking forward to the next few days. But why will he be the sorry one if he gets the girl who desires him so??
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): "could" be interested he said, that means he is thinking about it, if he loved you he wouldnt consider it.
Unless of course he is talking twaddle and is preparing you for a break up.
If i were you id leave, give him his space and never let him back into yours.
He will be the sorry one.
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