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writes: My boyfriend broke up with me because I asked him to answer his phone or to call me back soon and before he goes to sleep whenever he goes to a party with his friends. I didnt even like the idea of him going to a party to begin with but i was willing to be okay with it as long as he called me or answered his phone, but no he just wanted to end it. I was really willing to work things out with him but just kept saying no its not gonna work. Another issue is that he said his friends (guys and girls) are coming home for christmas break and that there will be a lot of get together and parties and i asked him if i could come with him and he said no because it wil be awkward and that i dont even drink. I still wanna go with him to meet people because i never go out and i dont have many friends so i thought it would be a great opportunity for me to meet people but no he kept saying he doesnt wanna bring me and that it wasnt gonna work and that we just need to end it. So i kept trying to convince him that we work things out instead of breaking up and he jut wasnt up for it. What did i do?? All i wanted was him to call me before he went to bed whenever he went to a party without me. All i wanted was to come to these parties with him sometimes not all the time :'( He said that he just can't be with me right now. That i'm too crazy because i dont like the idea of him hanging out with other girls if i'm not there. I'm 22 yeas old and he's almost 23. I'm not that young anymore to not have a serious relationship. What's your opinion on this??? Should I keep pursuing him?? Or should i just forget about him?? We were together for a year, broke up for a year, he was stringing me along for 5 months telling me he only wanted to be friends or friends with benefits, he finally decided to commit and just got back together about a week ago and now he broke things off with me because I didnt agree with him not ever taking me to these parties. I just felt like he was hiding me or something. Do i forget about him forever or should I keep trying??
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2009): It does sound kind of wierd to me that he would have to check in before bed if he'd gone to a party. Couldn't he just go out with his friends for a while?? I think you should have eased up on him a bit. At the same time, that was really unfair of him to not let you meet any of his friends.
Learn from your mistakes and move on to someone else. He's stated several times that he doesn't want you any more, and your past with him is just a mess anyway. You need to start fresh.
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reader, loveu2010  +, writes (14 December 2009):
 you just need to chill dont be too ott it will just scare him away let him go out and have fun xx see how it goes
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): He obviously does not want to be with you anymore, and you should have more self respect for yourself and walk away. His not wanting to take you to parties is an outright slap across your face, and I would not tolerate it. Dont be a doormat, walk away
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