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writes:I don't know if I should stay with my boyfriend of a year and a half. He is a lovely guy, but I don't feel in love with him. We also have a baby together. I would love 2 make it work for all of us. One problem I have is I can't help this feeling of maybe wanting to cheat on him just to get it out my system, I need excitement in my life. I go on chat sites and love the complements and attention I get. I even met a guy I'm thinking of leaving my bf for! I do love my boyfriend. Wot do I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou, you are both right! Yes i can see where im gettin confused now especially with chat sites. Oh and the other guy does no i have a baby and totally fine with it, but i am worried il regret leavin my bf so i think il end it with other guy, stop the chat sites and concentrate on wot i have already. Once again thank you :-) x
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reader, megan1111  +, writes (15 January 2009):
Sounds like you need to make up your mind if you really love him. If you do, you need to set him down, tell and teach him what you need and how you need it. Guys, think once they get you, it ends and life is happy. Wrong, what it got to get you is what it takes to keep you. If your guy just doesn't get it, the worst thing you can do is leave him for another guy if you have a baby by him.
If you choose to leave, let the situtation cool down, let some time pass so he sees you didn't leave him for another guy. Trust me, this will same you alot of grief. Later, you can start dating and your ex will be able to accept it better. They have a hard time with another guy around their kid even if they aren't there for the kid.
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