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writes:I have been going out with this guy for 10 months and we are living together in my house. I absolutley adore him and he adores me. We had a row on tuesday morning. the problem is he has had this cough/cold for the last 2 week. I have got him tablets and medicine which hasnt cleared it up. I havent had a full nights sleep in 2 weeks because of it. He refuses to go to the doctor and says it will go away eventually. Typical man!!! On Monday night I finally cracked over it and he slept on the couch for a few hours, then got back into bed and tossed and turned for another few hours. I lost the head and ended up on the couch. When I got up for work he was asking me what was wrong with me and I just said I didnt get a wink of sleep over him and I am so annoyed. He got into the shower and I stormed out to work! He is away for a few days now. I tried calling yesterday but he wont answer and insists on discussing it on a text message!! Basically hes annoyed with me and I am not very supportive even though I have bent over backwards for him!! The last text I got off him was yesterday when he said he was happy to be away for a few days and I have heard nothing from him since.I don't know what to do now. Do I contact him or just leave him sweat it out. I am so tormented over him I can't eat. I know I was rude that morning but he took it to another level by saying he was happy to be away from me for a few days. Ordinarily we have a brilliant relationship. Any advice would be great. I am extremely angry with him and I am very stubborn so I just don't want to give in and contact him first but paranoia is starting to set in!!
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reader, RedAthena  +, writes (22 June 2011):
 You are rude and angry because..
1-You are tired from lack of sleep and caring for a sick baby!
2-Frustrated because a grown adult refuses to see medical care. A cold lasting longer than 2 weeks is NOT normal. If he has continuing fevers, respiratory issues, etc he may have an infection that does need medical treatment/medication.
3-He hurt your feelings because he decided to leave and told you he is happy about it.
I agree with your first choice to NOT contact him. Get some rest, see how he responds. Take care of YOURSELF for now.
Best Wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2011): You have a selfish boyfriend. His health has you concerned and it is affecting YOUR health now.
Two weeks with a cold is NOT normal. He might have something more serious going on, such as an infection that DOES need medical treatment.
You were rude and angry because you have not gotten any sleep.
Personally, if my BF told me he was happy to be away from me, I would be questioning the relationship and maybe change the locks.
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