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*anox
writes:Right, i need someone's help to make me understand my boyfriend's mind a tad bit better..He wants to try a 3sum, however.. i want MY boyfriend to Myself! I'm not into girls, sure they're gorgeous but not sexually.I thought we had great sex, but i feel like im getting boring. We have been together for nearly 9months and he won't shutup about it!What do i do? Consider it because I love him?Or not?HELPHELPHELP!Thankyou.xxx
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reader, Hanox +, writes (22 January 2011):
Hanox is verified as being by the original poster of the question He does love me yes, but its mental!
im not going to do it, i wouldnt be able to look at him the same! but Thankyou all veery much for your help x.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2011): NO!!! it's not what you want!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2011): You could try this...Tell you are ready for a 3some but tell it has to be him and another guy...
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reader, Problem.helper  +, writes (21 January 2011):
 No. You don't want to have threesome, that's it ;). Almost every sexually oriented guy wants to have a threesome but only a tiny percentage is actually going to have one. I mean if he wants something that doesn't mean he's going to get.
ask him how would he feel about threesome with another guy that might help him see how do you feel
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (21 January 2011):
 Dont do ANYTHING you're not comfortable with...and this goes for everything in life. Today you give him a threesome to shut him up, what does he ask for next? Will you keep giving in to his demands just to shut him up all the time? Very soon the threesome will also get boring and stale. Then what??
Life isint always exciting and adventurous. If this man is bored in just 9 months, he's going to be very difficult to deal with. Think about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2011): JUST SAY YES but not with you. I'm sure allot of ladies here are going to have a shot at me but anyway...Look lots of guys love the idea of 2 girls at once, thats 2 mouths, 4 boobs, and 2... you know what I mean.One of my ex girlfriends, who I'm still on good terms with, was worried about this issue. She knew I was crazy about girls and sex and realy didn't want to be confronted with the idea of a 3some. So instead she confonted me with it and asked if I would ever want that. I said yeah for sure, I would love a 2 girl sex party BUT I know that after a threesome other problems would arrise, guilt, distrust, fights and other psychological missery. I said that if I ever were to arrange a 3some then it will only ever be with 2 prostitutes and not with her. It's safer, professional, no awkwardness and no strings attached. And you know what? she was good with this, and I mean happy, she was basically relieved and we never really spoke about again.Well since then I have never arranged a threesome, but if I ever do it will be with 2 prostitues, thats for sure.As crazy as this may seem and as inappropriate it may be to many female aunts here, my suggestion to you is to do the same, if he wants a 3some then he should do it with the professionals!
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reader, anonymous39  +, writes (21 January 2011):
First - 9 months is not a long time to be together.
Secondly, if you're not into it - say thanks, but no thanks.
Third - he does not give a shit about you - the fact that he continues to put pressure on you - hoping to wear you down is blatant disrespect and I would personally to him to piss off!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2011): JUST SAY NO If you're not into it then its only going to lead to your resentment of him when you see how mush he enjoyed something that you where iffy with to begin with. YOU don't want to do it don't let him pressure you into doing it. don't sacrifice you morals or your dignity bcuz you love your BOYFRIEND. Love your self first
Ahem........ hes a Boyfriend cut him loose and get one that is satisfied by, and can only see himself being with Y O U!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2011): No, don't consider it for a second if it is not something you want to do. And certainly not just to please him. When you are a couple it is very much about the two of you and that should be enough, and is for most people. Introducing another person to your intimate life would add complications and may even split you up in the end.
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