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writes:My husband has been working at night in our basement for his second part-time job. Today I went down to use his computer and found videos that he has been watching on You Tube with girls stripping and doing very sexy things. What do I do? Do I talk to him about this when he gets home? Or do you think he will try and hide it from me if I do? What does this mean? HELP! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008): I know a lot of people say "oh men look at porn" but they often look at it when things are not quite right for them in terms of satisfaction or stimulation. Try and think whether things have become stale and perhaps by inviting such a conversation you may be able to talk through his actions. If its bothering you - definitely talk about it otherwise resentment and worry will fester.
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reader, Reebe  +, writes (13 November 2008):
 Personally I would mention it, but in a light hearted way, I don't think it means anything I just think he's looking, remeber looking doesn't mean touching or actually wanting to do anything about it. Just say that you saw what he had looked at and see what reaction he gives.
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