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writes: I really like this guy and he knows. Hes super shy so he hasnt really made any moves (I think he likes me but im not sure because ive never had a guy like me before). I really want to kiss him next time I see him so I was wondering if it was weird for girls to make the first move?Obviously im leaving out a lot but I basically just wanna know how guys feel when girls make the first move. Also im only 17 so I understand I still have plenty of time
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2013): Nothing wrong with that proceed with caution feel him out and then make a move. Be gentle and kind and if he is shy go somewhere were you wont be bothered by others around you or starred at. Encourage conversation and see where it goes from there.I was shy when i started dating when i was 16 and it took a woman who was kind and a little suggestive to get me into gear.I am sure it is going to work out. Proceed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2013): I think it's fine if girls make the first move but I'd probably be more subtle than diving in for a kiss. Try holding his hand first... there are loads of "excuses" to be able to do this - go somewhere where you can dance or cross a busy road together and hold his hand for "protection" or even pretend palm-reading
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reader, person12345  +, writes (4 November 2013):
 Yes you should make the first move! It's just as scary for him. If he's shy he never will, do it.
However I would start a bit slower, like ask him for coffee or something rather than grabbing him and kissing him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2013): Nothing wrong me n my BF we are 2gether its now almost 5yrs he proposed me i accepted him but was scared 2 push me on sex until i push him and treatning if his not ready i am living him was about a yr dating couples with no sex but now his the one more intresting on sex morethan me he love having sex morethan what i was thought about me try you best
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reader, YouWish +, writes (4 November 2013):
 I made the first move! We're now married for 15 years! :)
It's the 21st century, so it's okay for a girl to make the first move! Doesn't mean you're needy or clingy, so just bait the hook, then play it cool!
Some guys just get paralyzed at the idea of risk. My husband was one of them. I thought he was really good looking and he kept LOOKING at me! It wasn't love at first sight for me, but he seemed interesting enough, and I was bored, so I asked him out right out of the blue, just as friends!
That was all he needed, and we grew a real relationship from there. I slowly went from the cool, confident one, to OMG I'm in love with the guy! He, once he got past the actual asking phase, became super-romantic! Taking me to special places, doing really nice things, always wanted me arm-in-arm in public. We still show affection in public, and I hope to keep doing that when we're 90!
So yeah! If you like him, go get him!
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