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writes:I as a girl have noticed that when a girl likes a guy she'll remember all the little parts. I remember everything. Almost every line he's ever said to me. And it's not like I obsess over them or write them down but I remember all the little things about him too. Buy guys never seem to pay that much attention. Do guys remember these kinds of things too? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2010): It depends on the guy and what the "thing" is you want them to remember. They pick up on things that interest them and some more than others. My guy will remember things from 5 years ago, small things like a particular song I was obsessed with or what my hair looked like one day. So they can remember the small things, they just don't talk about it as much I think. Girls like to reminisce and guys are not always the same, they tend to think more about the present and the future and not so much the past.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (12 August 2010):
 Some guys do, others don't, it all depends on his personality. Personally, I do my best to remember these kinds of things. I have found that the reaction is very favorable when I do, so that reinforced the behavior.
I love it when I can bring up something small that was said or done a while back. Sometimes it will be something that she's forgotten about until I brought it up. The reaction is usually priceless.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2010): In my experience no haha. I always seem to remember all these little details such as you but my boyfriend never can. I wish he would just shock me one day and bring up some little thing i did he remembered but its been 4 years and so far theres been nothing....boo!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2010): Hmmmm they probably don't remember ALL the little things like girls often do. But that's not because they love any less, it's just because they are men and theeir brain's are wired differently ;-)
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