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writes: I like this guy but he is going out with another girl off and on. I have become friendly with him and want to make more out of the relationship. Should I make a move? In general do guys like the first move to be by girls? How can I say what I want to convey but have it be casual? Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, moomoomoo  +, writes (4 December 2006):
 HECK YEA THEY LIKE IT WHEN GIRLS MAKE THE FIRST MOVE! there are many reasons for that but i won't get into it here. make sure he's a nice guy though! i would suggest talking to him about food or movies, and if he's into movies, ask him if he's seen any lately and etc. and what he is interested in, then say "oh this movie is coming up, wanna see it?" good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2006): I think you should test the water before you jump in. Try flirting with him, and if its reciprocated flirt more and build on it. When your 100% sure casually ask him out for a drink one Friday night. I don't see anything wrong atal with the girl making the first move.
Do you work with this guy, or is he someone you just see every now and then socially?
All the very best of luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2006): It really depends on the person, im male and i made the first move because im not very shy and im very open, but some people may be shy, if your both shy why not try talking to him make him know you like him, and make sure he likes you, i didnt except my gf to make the first move because i think men should make the first move but me and my gf arnt shy so it really depends on the person..
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