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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I've been seeing a guy I've known for a while for about the last 3 months, we decided to become exclusive about 4 weeks ago. Because of our work we only see each other probably twice a week. 2 weeks ago he asked if I could do him a favor and look after his dog at my place since he wasn't really suppose to have her where he is currently living. Because the relationship is really new I've been having some new relationship anxiety, hoping it won't all come crashing down. (He doesn't have the best track record with women and has been labeled a player, however I want to give it a go as I believe when you find the right person things can be different)Hes not usually very good at expressing his feelings unless hes had a couple to drink but we had a chat and he had been feeling the same way, then he said "don't worry you've got me, I love you" that blew me away and I told him I loved him too. The following night he said how comfortable we were together and he likes being with me and asked if I really wanted to get "mixed up" with him. I said of course I did. Then the next night when I had my children there he seemed to become a bit distant. When we were apart he would always send me a good night text, that has now stopped and today we were messaging and he asked how his dog was, I said fine. Then he thanked me again for having her and said he would find somewhere they could both live soon. What should I be reading into all of this? I'm concerned he may of changed his mind about us again. Or is it just the relationship settling down. Or is it just normal for a guy that has trouble expressing his feelings, I must admit I'm having trouble expressing mine as well in fear of scaring him off
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