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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Ok so I've been dealing with this in my head for a long time. I had a friend in high school, we were cool started hanging out in the 10th grade graduated class of 2000. I would go to her house after school on the weekends etc. At the time she was dating this guy and she introduced me to a guy friend of hers who I ended up having a 3year relationship with. Well the guy she was dating at the time we'll call him "Dee" she was very much in love with but he ended up breaking up with her for reasons to this day I don't know.She then almost immediately started talking to a guy and they got married in 2001 and had a baby in 2002 ans are still married to this day.Well the guy She introduced me to, we broke up in 2003 because he was in the military and was stationed far. Me and her kind of lost touch around 2003, I would just see her around, have small talk but never really hung out like we use to.Well in 2005 Me and some friends were at a club and I saw "Dee" at the club and we were just conversating and hit it off real well, he was telling me how he was always interested in me when he met but Since I had a boyfriend at the time he just continued to talk to my friend.I didnt think anything was wrong at the time because I figured, yeah they use to date, she's married now, we don't really ahng out like that. why not go on a date with him.Well we ended up being intimate. We dated for a couple of months thats it. But I would like to know Am I wrong for this? She has no idea to this day. I see her every once in a while at the club and we are friends on myspace and ended up hanging out one night but we don't do this often.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2008): No, you are not wrong for dating a guy that you are into. She has obviously moved on with her life, regardless of what happened in her past. It is YOUR life, have fun, and try not to doubt your decisions!! If it feels right do it!
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