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writes:Ok, there's my problem: through a long time I used to watch and like some bizarre bestiality porn (Women with dogs, horses etc., animals mating).I'm not into real animals. Having sex with an animal - grossie, too weird...Currently I don't watch such videos and seeing bestiality vids doesn't turn me on. Now I consider this as disgusting. And I'm sometimes ashamed with whatI've seen through last 3 years.Am I a zoophile? Or it was just a morbid curiosity?
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reader, svf  +, writes (22 July 2011):
 Hello, I can tell that you feel pretty bad about it, which shows that you are thinking normally, which is great.
From what I've read about all the posts, porn is something men watch for pure fantasy. You would never act these things out in real life, but people still watch porn to get aroused. It is fantasy to let off steam. This is what I read about all porn. With the type of porn you are watching, it is a bit more left field than most, but it is still just fantasy, and the fact that you feel awful afterwards shows that this is playing on your mind in a negative way, so I don't think that this has become a real problem for you, as you have said that you don't watch it now?
Don't beat yourself up about it, you've watched it, now it's in the past. I think if it was impacting on your relationship, I would be taking a harder line with you. If it was, then you would have a problem with porn addiction, but you have not written anything here, so I am assuming that it hasn't, or you are not in a relationshi? I have no time for men who use porn over having sex with their partners(!) but you have not written anything to that effect here.
Take care, and just put it behind you and move on. From what you have written, it sounds like it was something you viewed in the past, so leave it there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2011): It sounds as if you viewed it too long for it to be 'just' morbid curiosity. What you viewed has caused some damage and left you traumatized. Even if this habit is in the past now. Seek out a good counsellor that specializes in porn addiction. You need help to square things away and move on.
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