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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Okay me and my gf lost our virginity to each other. We had sex but I dont believe I fully went inside her. She kept jumping. It was my first time so I didn't know what to do. So now im fustrated and believe I did a terrible job. She wouldn't let me go fully in. TBG my private area is about 7 to 8 inches so what is the problem? Reply to this Question
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (29 August 2012):
 Yes, as "fishdish" mentioned, her hymen may still be intact. That would make sex uncomfortable the first time or two. Indeed, more foreplay may help. And I'll agree, be gentle and very patient.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (28 August 2012):
 Okay first off, it's probably not you, it's her hymen. unless you lube or foreplay (she's naturally wet) and even then, it can be uncomfortable and painful for the girl. you're also larger than average, to top it off! have you SEEN how small the vaginal opening is? it's like...pea sized. and you're not. So That is the problem. it's not that she's grossed out or that she doesn't want to be into it, it sounds like you're big and it hurt her, and she needs to be warmed up a little more first. it'll get easier with time because she'll get used to her size, but if she's flinching it's not because she's trying to! you just have to be sensitive to her needs and go at her pace.
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