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female
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30-35,
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writes:I really need advice about this teacher from my old school, it has been a few months but i do not have closure. I went to a boarding school up in massachusetts and teachers had the responsibility of pretty much being a second parental figure in all our lives. One night in my dorm i hurt my foot and my dorm parent told me she would call the OD to come look at my foot, the OD is a teacher who is a administrator who watches the campus one night a week. My dorm parent called the OD and he came into my room he was married two young kids, his wife was the dean of students he just worked in the office. He came in really friendly approachable ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS sat at the end of my bed and started to ask me about my foot, which at the time was innocent and normal. After that night everything changed, during my school days i constantly caught him staring at me, turning red when i caught him, tried to make me by talking to other girls in front of me, coming into my dorm without telling me to ask me how i am, then one weekend i needed to go to CVS so i called the OD phone and he picked up but i did not reveal to him it was me i wanted to keep it private because i could tell he had a little thing for me, i asked him for the taxi number and i couldnt understand him so i asked him many times to repeat himself and he got really frustrated and said who is this, and i said my name and he got all sweet and nice and was like oh i will have no problem giving it to you, HE GAVE ME THE WRONG NUMBER ON PURPOSE he called me back!!! and said he gave me the wrong number he offered to take me in his car and i said ok but i was with friends he proceeded to say oh i cant take u now cuz ur with other people so i said thanks and hung up, he called BACK AGAIN!!! and said ok yea yea yea ill take you, ever since then i caught him flushing blushing stuttering showing off infront of me staring...using his kids as excuses to look at me...WHAT DID HE WANT..i am still wondering to myself what the hell was going on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2010): yes, he probably fantasised about you inappropriately. But it is not the attention you need. He is married, his wife has a responsible respected position, he has children. And there is nothing nice about a married man in lust (not love) about a student. Be thankful that he dig not act on his lustful crush on you. Married men who are dumb enough to cheat on their
wives are low weak and no good. They only get away with it when there are silly enough to think it could become something more.
Find a gorgeous unmarried available man who lives close enough to see you daily, and who you like and who likes you.
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