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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My now ex boyfriend and I have been growing apart for months due to his financial hardships. My ex boyfriend has allowed my career success to make him insecure. It appears that he thinks that I am going to meet a guy that is equally successful as me and start a new relationship with someone else. His jealous is not normal, and upsets me. The last time I saw him he and a friend was together, at his job, and I got the feeliubg that his friend was interested in learning more about me. My ex boyfriend made it clear that we were once a couple, but insisted that we would never be more than friends again. After seeing him and his friend at his job- his friend requested me as a friend on facebook. I immediately denied his request. However, I would like to know if he asked to be my friend because he is possibly interested in me or if he wants to keep tabs on me for my ex boyfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2015): Mmm. Maybe he liked the look of you and was interested? I'd say ignore the request and see if the guy messages you. You accepting this request could turn into a mess. Your ex will care if he sees u dating his friend. Is it too soon to be dating and with his friend? Things could get complicated.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (6 March 2015):
 Eh I think it really doesn't matter. The guy is a FRIEND of your ex, you already got of that bad rodeo so WHY care what a friend of this thinks?
I suggest you keep ignoring the requests and LOOK elsewhere for guys to date, preferable GUYS who aren't friendly with your ex.
BUT IF you really WANT to know, ask him. None of us here has a crystal ball that can see into his soul.
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