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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I like this guy in my english class. Long story short, on Sunday, I asked him if he wanted to get lunch or possibly dinner with me one day. He said he was free on Monday after our english class. We went out and had the best time. He was funny, cute and very entertaining. He even let me borrow his favorite jacket because it was cold outside. We went back to his room after dinner and he hugged me before I left. Well, I called him the next day to ask if he wanted to go to a baseball game with me and he said he had class. Then the next day I sent him a text saying I had fun on Monday. He texted back saying that Monday was a good time indeed. Well, today is Thursday, 3 days after our date. I called him and asked him if he wanted to see Juno with me and my friends. He said that he had already made plans with his friends and I suggested that our groups joined together. He agreed. Well, he ended up calling me and saying that it was too packed and that he hoped I would enjoy the movie. I'm just wondering if he even likes me and if I should even try. Maybe our date didn't go so well for him? I sent him a message basically telling him how I felt about him and asked him how he felt. Was that the right thing to do or have I successfully scared him away?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008): Leave it and see if he does the chasing. If not, then maybe he isn't that keen. If he isn't that doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you. He could have all sorts of reasons for not wanting things to go any further. Some men like to do the chasing.
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reader, salvation  +, writes (18 April 2008):
depends what kind of guy he is some get easily sacred away some dont however i do think continulay asking him to come out again everyday will end up changing his mind. The text was an alright idea it will just set things straight. Try not to be so eager.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008): Only he knows the answer. Maybe he genuinely enjoyed being with you but didn't want to let his friends down. Although he agreed to meet you and your friends with his friends, maybe his friends didn't think it was such a good idea.
I'd suggest leaving him to chew things over for a few days and let him contact you for a change. If he's interested in you, trust me, he'll get back to you. If not, well, there's plenty more guys out there!
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