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Did I say the right thing to her? I'm confused why she won't date me!

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Question - (1 December 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 2 December 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi guys. I posted my quesion here afew days ago about how I met a girl and we went out and ended up kissing and she told me she was single. But then the next day said she was kinda seeing someone after I suggested we go out again.

Anyway the problem I have now is that I texted the girl and asked her what I did wrong. She said I hadn't done anything wrong, but that she is seeing someone and she couldn't keep in contact with me. which I think is a lie as I feel she is trying to somehow keep herself safe in some way as she has told me she has been with men before that have beaten her up in the past. But she doesn't want me to delete her phone number. Which I don't understand.I told her that it would be best to just contact me again if she becomes single again. Have I said the right thing??? I wish I could show her that I'm not out to use her in anyway. But I do like her and want the chance to get to know her. But don't undertand why she is acting in this way. Any ideas guys!!!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2010):

Dude, give it up already. You're playing head games with yourself. She's told you she can't stay in contact with you. Take her at her word. Leave the girl alone!!

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