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writes:there is this guy i really like a lot. i literally can't think about anything else but him. a few nights ago i had been drinking at my friends' house and i called him for a sober ride home (he owed me atleast one) and he came and got me. when we got to my house i tried to get him to come in with me, he said no that he was tired and wanted to sleep in his own bed. like an idiot, i kept asking, still no. (i kind of overreacted and took it personally) so then i leaned in and hugged him and sneakily started to kiss him. i couldn't tell if he wanted to or not, but then he kissed me back some? and i was the one who broke the kiss. this morning i am soooo embarrassed that i did this. i'm wondering if i ruined everything? would he really kiss me back at all if he wasn't attracted to me? but if he was attracted to me wouldn't he have wanted to come inside? so confused and scared i ruined any chance with this guy. Reply to this Question
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reader, Over..worried.  +, writes (23 July 2010):
 I think there is a chance that he does like you. Would you rather knowing that well you were drunk he took advantage of you ? He kissed you back for a bit. Maybe call him back apologize for your actions?
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reader, Kayl 25  +, writes (23 July 2010):
Well the first thing im goin to say is dont panic! I think the best thing you can do is get in touch with this guy and tell him your sorry and explain that you'd had a drink and just dont know what came over you. Explain that your feeling embarrassed and if he's a decent guy he'll tell you to forget about it, i get the feeling he was probably just as embarrassed as you are. Ask him if you can start again and ask him if he'd like to meet up with you for something to eat (just dont get drunk). Flirt with him a little and see if he responds, you need to know one way or the other how he feels. I dont think you've ruined things, just made them a little uncomfortable for the minute. Try not go obsess about him, and let me know how things go!
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reader, almc +, writes (23 July 2010):
Naw not at all, maybe the reason he didn't want to come in because he didn't want anything to happen when your drunk and not remember, also he was sleepy, and he did kiss you back if he didn't feel something for you he would of pushed you away, right away but he didn't he kissed you back :)
Just give him a text or call and say your sorry about last night, you were drunk and say hope everything is ok? Then maybe ask him to go out for dinner or movies at your place :) hope it all works out :)
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