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writes:ok, so ive been with my boyfriend for two months now, and before then we talked for 5 whole months! lately i havent been getting that little 'butterfly feeling'. i still love him and love to be with him and whenever i cant be with him im upset. but ive been upset that i dont get that little butterlfy feeling anymoreee!whats going onn?!thank you :) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2010): The start of a relationship is always the best. The flirting and the uncertainty of whether or not the guy likes you, creates those butterflies. Now that you've hooked up and have been together, that spark may have faded. It's just a matter of loving your partner and not getting tired of them.
It's one of the many reasons why people break up or cheat: they're bored. Just continue to make your relationship work.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2010): well the same thing happened to me, though it was with a girl I liked not one i was dating and so my friend told me it was becasue I had become comfortble around her. Also some one on this sight said that the feeling could of gone away becasue the heart is trying to hide its feeling out of fear of being hurt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2010): What is going on that in those five months, you've gotten use to him and comfortable around him enough that you dont get that "butterfly" feeling anymore. :)
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