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writes:Dear CupidI found out few days back that my bf tried to cheat on me, i confronted him and he said he was sorry but assured nothing really happened, (the girl backed off).He promised that he would never do this again and i love him so much, hence forgave him. Now he is avoiding me , spending so much time with friends and he rather watches TV or play games rather than talking to me. I feel cheated and used. Did i do a mistake by forgiving him? Reply to this Question
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reader, kenny  +, writes (2 January 2011):
 The question here is, if this other girl had not have backed off would he have still gone through with it, and im betting he sure would have. When he says he will never do this again, do you in your heart of heart believe that this is true?. Maybe if he gets into a situation like this again, and next time the girl does not back off, do you think he will go through with it, i reckon so.
Now he is ignoring you, avoiding you, playing games rather than talking to you, im not suprised you feel cheated and used, and yes personally i think it was a mistake forgiving him. I think you need to find someone who gives you the love and respect that you deserve.
Good luck x
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