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writes:Hey all,i have a question...i got really horning last ngith and started masturbating. i couldnt get enoguh, so i used a tool to help me feel good. im a virgin, and i started bleeding. could this be because of the tool i used, or my thing breaking and making me not a virgin anymore?have i lost my virginity to myself?ill never do it again and i feel disgusting...please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou all, especially Frozen Lullaby.
I horse-ride and swim aswell, so that could have lead up to it... maybe.
Also, Soon567- i did not 'dildo myself' or use a cucumber, and after reading the other comments i disregard yours.
I now think that if you are a virgin, you have not made love. Since masturbating has nothing to do with making love, i class myself as a virgin. I just don't understand what you are saying- any woman that masturbates is no longer a virgin? That is controversial.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2010): 1: dont feel disgusting. Why do you think sex toys sell so big? People like to use them. Its totally normal!
2: The blood was probably from your hymen. So if a doctor were examining you he/she would probably say that you arent a virgin.
3: define virginity. Do you consider it sex when a person masturbates? I think you are a virgin because you have not had sex.
Maybe you did your self a favor. Now when you do have sex you wont have that embarassing blood, and maybe it wont hurt as badly.
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reader, Illithid  +, writes (6 April 2010):
 You're still a virgin. And please, don't feel disgusted. You're a normal girl exploring herself. If you get to know your body, enjoy some solo time (even with a tool), you will be better able to explore and enjoy sex when you finally DO give your virginity to someone. Never feel guilty about masturbating.
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reader, help heros +, writes (5 April 2010):
 your still a virgin and will be untill you have sexual intercourse with a male. dont feel disgusted with yourself for doing what you done it is natural. just be careful when putting stuff up x
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reader, FrozenLullaby +, writes (5 April 2010):
Don't worry, you have not lost your virginity to yourself.
It is a well known fact that a girl is no longer considered a virgin after she experiences sexual intercourse. Any other sexual act (like masturbating) doesn't have to do with virginity.
However, it is possible for hymen to break before a girl has sex for the first time. Like, from horse riding, swimming, etcetera. I know I probably had mine broken because of horse riding, and I didn't bleed at all on my first time.
So, even if your hymen "broke" that way you really have not lost your virginity yet. Also, masturbating is normal, so don't feel like you ought to abstain from it. It's nothing disgusting at all, it's something most people have done at least once in their lives.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2010): Sweetheart, as Yos said you are still a virgin. There is nothing at wrong with what you did, don't feel disgusting just relax and enjoy. Be careful what 'tool' you are using, you don't want to hurt yourself, it's meant to be fun
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reader, Yos  +, writes (5 April 2010):
 You're still a virgin. You can't lose your virginity until you've had a penis inside you (the exact details are up for debate).
And don't feel disgusting. What you did is perfectly normal, most people do it at some time or another. If you want to do it again, do, and don't worry about it.
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