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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:He was my best male friend We had a blazing row and he hasn't spoken to me in 7 months despite me asking to be friends and texting etc hes ignored the lotHe ignores me at work and hangs around with new friendsHe saw me last night and was standing with a mutual friend and blanked me so I acted like I did t care when inside I'm so hurtDid he notice me ignoring himI think there's no hope Help
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (10 April 2014):
 Even if he did notice you ignoring him, clearly he does not care...
he's made it clear that he wants nothing to do with you... his choice... hold your head high and just walk away.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (10 April 2014):
 I agree, if someone doesn't want to talk to you after 7 months, there is no friendship there.
Be cordial if you HAVE to talk to him, otherwise I'd just plain ignore him.
Don't be a drama-llama.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2014): I think not speaking to you for over half a year is a clear indication he has cut ties with you, and the friendship is over.
It bothers you because he ignores you. So it eats at you.
Why would you want to be friends with someone who has ignored you for so long? You should have been over it, and moved on by now.
Holding your head high and dramatizing the fact you're ignoring him; while it is completely obvious that's what you are doing, is making you look daft. Quite silly!
How about avoiding contact and not being in the same hangouts for awhile?
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