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writes: Dear Cupid, I met this girl a week ago. She just came over from foreign country and now she's studying at my school. Because I was helping out with the new student orientation, I got to know quite well. I showed her around the campus, visited her at her office, taking her to mall and etc. It seems to work out really well. For a while, I thought she was interested in me too. But that seems to have calmed down a lot now. There was less touching, and she seems to be less interest in picking up conversations. The other night when we were walking back to my room to drop off some stuff, she stood outside and was hesitating to come in. But when we were over at my friend's dorm, she went in without hesitating. I'm wondering if I had made her feel uncomfortable somehow. I was more shocking when I found out that she visited my friend who she just met a night ago, and yet we have met for more than a week now, and she haven't stopped by mine at all. Have I done something that scared her off? I want her to be comfortable around me. What can I do to help it? Reply to this Question
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (29 August 2005):
 I think maybe she was not as interested in you like the way you think. You basically were her tour guide for a week and while she really appreciated it...maybe she felt there was a connection between her and your friend. Don't take too much offence to it, things like this just happened. I don't think you did anything wrong at all. Why don't you ask her about it...tell her you feel that you did something to offend her cause things have changed somewhat between you guys. Hear...no sorry listen to what she has to say and I am sure she can shed some light on the deal.
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