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writes: My fiancee left me a week ago today. About 3 weeks ago she went to Florida on a vacation to visit family members. She constantly asked me if I would consider moving down there in 2 years. After about 2 weeks of this I said "No, I don't think so, I have a home here, a job, and my family. I'm 32 years old and she's 24. When she got home she wanted to talk to me. She gave me my ring back and said she was moving to Florida in a couple weeks and that she does not feel like she can be herself around me. She says she's doing this for herself and she hated to hurt me. After a week I'm confused, angry, and very depresssed. All I can think of is ways to get her back into my life. I tell her I would move to Florida and she just says "You're saying that because of the situation, that's not how you really feel". I spent 3 1/2 years with this woman. I love her and I want her back. What do I do?
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (29 August 2005):
 Wow she sounds like my ex...wow. Take my really dumb opinion here okay. Something happened in Florida and apparently it stayed there. For her to give you back her ring, moving so quickly and all...uh huh...something definitely happened. I know you love her and want her back....Lordy do I know ....but what you can do is this...confront her about Florida and how quickly it all happened....and tell her how you feel. If that does not work honey, you gotta chalk it up to experience and lessons learned okay. If you guys can work it out..then visit Florida and see what happens
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