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writes:Yestarday I kissed my boyfriend for the first time. As this was my first time so I dont know whether it was right or not. We had hugged each other real tight and I remember him pressing his mouth into mine. Then I kind of gave him a bite(very soft though) on his lower lips and remember him telling "Oh man!!" Now, I dont know if it was ok. He is very experienced so I m really anxoius to know wheter it was right or wrong? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2008): he didnt run away so you done well lol. Very brave on first kiss to do that as well go you :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2008): I know if I was ur boyfriend i would be turned on with that kiss so yeah u did good.
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reader, searbear  +, writes (24 August 2008):
 Aww, bless you.
sorry i probably sound like an old woman..
sounds like you did well, i mean you didn't like bang heads or get rejected for the kiss so well done.
and the biting off the lip?! wow, im very surprised. you must feel so comfortable with him to want to do that.
anyways, if you want more advice there's quite a few sites, if you search in google about kissing. good luck! :D
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reader, ChiRaven  +, writes (24 August 2008):
 If it worked for you and it worked for him, you did it right.
The nice thing about just about anything having to do with the relationship between a couple is that the only people who have any business judging what is "right" or "wrong" are the couple themselves. Keep that in mind.
And with that in mind, don't be shy about communicating with the guy you're with. Let him know if something is making you uncomfortable and want him to stop. Or if you really like something and want him to do more of it. Or if it's almost right but he really needs to change it and do "this" just a little differently. You may find such communication a little embarrassing at first, but remember, neither you nor the guy you are with is a mind reader. If you want the experience to be as good as it can be, you've both got to be willing to communicate.
So if you want to know if something is working OK for your guy, don't be too shy to ask him, "are you OK with this?" At worst he'll think it's cute. And he'll almost certainly respond by giving you the information you need to be a better kisser (and better in a whole lot of situations in the years to come).
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