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How should I hint, ask her out, etc? I never want to lose her.

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Question - (23 August 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 24 August 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, *oynextdoor writes:

I think I am in love with the girl next door. We are both in high school, and neither one of us have had a relationship before. I know her and talk to her and our families know each other too. In fact her brother is my best friend.

We've known each other for 8+ years- since first grade! I just overlooked her all this time and thought of her as a friend and nothing more. But I want to be even more with her. I think we share a lot and I really feel like I need her more than ever now. She is always nice to me, and may have given me hints here and there, but I just don't know how I can start giving hints all of a sudden that I like her because it would be sort of awkward.

Her birthday is in a month, what should I do? Usually we say happy birthday to each other and that's it. I want to give her something small that she can appreciate but nothing too out of the ordinary.

How should I hint, ask her out, etc. I never want to loose her.

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A female reader, searbear United Kingdom +, writes (24 August 2008):

searbear agony auntdo you too ever go out together, like down the road or to the park?

i'd suggest, (say a day before her birthday) ask if she wants to come out, take her to the park, nice quiet spot and give her your present, let her know you like her alot and you don't want to lose her as a friend and she'll go home and think about the lovely things you've said.

once she's thought about you quite abit her feelings may get stronger.

trust me.. us girls are in love with that kind of stuff.

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