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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I right off the back really liked my ex, and he liked me even more. I of course never had good luck with relationships, always getting bored, or just stopped liking the guy. I told him this and he seemed a little scared, but we went to parties together anyway. This happened all summer and once again my curse came and i stopped liking him out of thin air. He always asked our mutual friends about me and they'd tell me when he did. Finally, after not seeing him for a month i went with my best friend to her boyfriend's basketball game, who is a team mate of my ex. We once again hit it off and began dating again. Everything was casual, but after a month i wanted more. I asked for a relationship and he wasn't sure. He's always had long term and his last girlfriend ended up cheating on him. I told him i wasn't sure in the beginning but i was now and he still didn't want to get into a relationship. I was crushed. We would run into each other and just be miserable the rest of the night, both of us. He finally called me and said he wanted things the old way, i wanted at least something with him so i agreed. But then 2 weeks later i was hurt again and he seemed perfectly fine with just being casual, i wanted to hurt him, so i got drunk and not completely intentional, hooked up with his best friend. We didn't speak for another month, then he texts me and says he misses me and i can always have him. I barely get to see him and when i did we would hook up. I was so excited to know he had forgiven me and thought maybe he had realized he wanted a relationship with me. We saw each other for the first time and he said he can't get over me because every time he sees me all his feelings come back. But then 2 weeks after reuniting, our mutual friend who is a girl told me he has been telling his buddies he doesn't like me and is just using me to get some. I was completely crushed so i told him i regret hooking up with him and wish he would have just told me he didn't like me anymore. It ended in a fight and i haven't talked to him since. Did he truly get over me? was he just bragging to his buddies to seem cooler? or does he still have feelings for me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008): Maybe you need to refrain and work on yourself for awhile. If your bored, ask yourself why and figure out the reason. Guys don't mind getting input from you. If all of a sudden, you don't like someone, ask yourself why. If you continue the way your going (bored, sudden dislike), you probably won't have a very happy life. So figure out why you do and learn more about who you are and nuture it. Once you've nailed down the why's, you'll be able to control it better, and communicate in a non threatening way that helps ruin a relationship.
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