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female
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anonymous
writes: Hi guys, I'm 17 years old and I really would like if someone could help me. There is a boy in my school who I never really noticed before until now when I realised that he stares at me everyday, goofing around near me and trying to get close to me as possible. Unfortunately after exchanging a lot of 'these' looks he stopped completely and now behaves as if I don't exist. Also there has been a rumour going aroung that he is really into other girl in school who is in realationship with someone else. Presumably they slept together. I don't know however why whilst liking that girl he was also acting like he fancies me. Is it possible that he could've thought I'm too hard to get and basically gave up or just stopped liking me and now ignors me or maybe he never actually liked me... This is way too confusing,please help! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, CMMP +, writes (19 January 2013):
It's likely that you weren't the only girl he had his eye on. Another girl acted first and he probably felt like flirting with anyone but her was no longer necessary.
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reader, Agneta +, writes (18 January 2013):
Sounds like he thought you was pretty and was checking you out a bit. I think he is looking around for many girls he founds nice or cool, to see if there might be any response of interest.
The question is, what do you think of him? If you are interested in him too, I am pretty sure you would get his interest for you back immediately if you'd approach him somehow. If you don't, then just leave it, then it might just be your ego wanting the attention (that happens to me all the time, so no intention to make you feel bad!). He will not be the only one around giving you attention.
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