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writes:Okay... uhm, well there's this guy. i *really* like. and i think i love him, 'cause i've never felt this way with another guy before, not even close!well, he's said he likes me, although i don't know if he meant it. i asked him out in Spetember, and it took him two weeks to say no to me :( . i asked him out again in October, after following some stupid advise from a freind. he said no on that night. then, On my birthday, in November, he wrote me a poem, and told me he loved me, even though i was going out with someone, and then after a couple of weeks, i said to him that i still liked him and he sadi : "i don't think we're ever going to work this out". and then in December, he told his freind, and my freind, that he loves me, but didnt want me to know. and my freind, being a good freind ^^. told me, i stupidly broke up with the guy i was going out with, so he could go out with me, although two days after he told me he already had a girlfreind, and was confused about weather to break up with her for me, he didnt want to do this because his ex, Who dumped him in August after having sex with him, he thinks she used him, and he also think she left him for someone else, and he dodent want to do that do his girlfrend, because he knows how it feels. Now in January... i told him to go away and stay with his girlfreind, because i didnt think he liked more, or he lost interest or something. but i wanna know if you think this guy likes/liked me, or was just using me as a back-up incase his girlfreind broke up with him? :/
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reader, Rocky_91 +, writes (16 January 2007):
Rocky_91 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Ive got her,
but somehow I want you?
My heart is breaking,
Yet remaking?
What is this I feel?....
I see her smile at me,
Yet I smile at you,
I try not to let her see,
that I want you to.
Why do I desire this love,
has not my recent love been used.
Can anyone help me from here or above,
I am just so lost and confused
This is the poem he sent me... i didnt understand it *then*, 'cause he didnt tell me he had a girlfreind, and for some reason i thought he was talking about his ex.
i know he's got alot of growing up to do, but his ex did mess him around alot, and so i can't help but tell myself to give him time and patience, and maybe he'll work it out...
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reader, cd206 +, writes (16 January 2007):
 He's confused and he has a lot of growing up to do before he can be deserving of someone like you. Trust me, what you feel for each other isn't love, it's curiosity and lust and that's perfectly natural. If you're truly meant to be you'll find your way there eventually but for now just sit back and chill.
CD
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