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writes: My boyfriend and I were in a fight and I was making fun of the size of his penis. Then he said well what do you call that stuff sticking out of you. He meant my labium majus. I asked him about it later when we had made up. He said he was just joking and he loves it really but is he just saying that? I'm now paranoid about it because I don't know if it's normal or whether he's just being an idiot. Is he? Reply to this Question
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reader, Davethegamer  +, writes (24 December 2009):
joking about a mans penis is really hurtful but i have been with a girl with rather large lips and wasnt pleased with them...so i guess everyone has preferences
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (23 December 2009):
 yep - put ya pants back on until you are mature enough to not go giving complexes to other people that could affect them indefinately. If you can't respect each other, you have no business having sex with each other.
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reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (23 December 2009):
You both need to grow up. Your comment could have been a serious blow to his ego and hurt his self image for YEARS! His comment to you could have done the same... how does it feel? You're hurt, he's hurt, both of you may wonder for years if your body is malformed... you need to GROW UP and learn how to be in a disagreement w/o seriously hurting the person that you supposedly love. HOW CRAPPY...
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reader, ibob  +, writes (23 December 2009):
He may have only been joking but you both sound far, far too young to be having sex. Please stay safe, the last thing you want is to become pregnant.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2009): I think you both need to put your knickers back on and walk away, you are too young and too immature to be having sex much less fighting about your private parts.
Seriously, if you aren't grown up enough to not insult each other like this, then you aren't grown up enough to be having sex, K?
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reader, fishdish +, writes (23 December 2009):
 he just wanted to get you back for making fun of his size, a very personal a sensitive issue for guys, so he tried to get to you the best he could with your privates, that's all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2009): Wow, that was a low blow. How you're feeling right now is probably how he's feeling about you making fun of his penis.
I don't know if he was serious about his comment, but you both sound too immature to even be in a relationship.
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